Insights
These are some of Bonnie's thoughts on what it means to be a medium and the work she does—both with the living and those who have passed on.
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Why I Do This Work
​​At the heart of my work is a deep compassion for all beings. I hate to see people suffer—and that includes souls. Souls are simply humans without a physical body. Just like us, they carry emotions, memories, and sometimes pain. My purpose is to help both the living and the departed find peace, clarity, and resolution.
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In addition to helping people and souls, I also assist earthbound beings—such as elementals, entities, fairies, and even interdimensional beings—who may be lingering in our space. Often, they’re simply looking for a way to return to a realm more aligned with their energy, and I help guide them there.
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Navigating the Physical and Non-Physical Worlds
​​One of my unique abilities is to help move souls between the physical and non-physical worlds. Where things often become difficult is when these two realms overlap—when a soul becomes stuck or remains tied to the earth. These earthbound souls can become "agitated" or "cranky" as they attempt to get a human’s attention, often through physical signs or emotional interference. Most people, however, are not equipped to perceive or communicate with the spirit world, which can lead to confusion and distress.
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The Journey of a Soul After Death
​​I believe that when we die, there's a natural transition: as the physical body is released, the soul continues on to the soul world—or what some might call heaven. Most souls follow this path with ease and continue their spiritual journey. However, not all souls move on right away.
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In my experience, there are four main reasons why a soul may remain earthbound:
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Fear – Uncertainty about what lies ahead in the afterlife.
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Attachment – A desire to stay behind to watch over someone or wait for a loved one.
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Trauma – Sudden or intense deaths (such as through accidents, suicide, overdose, or illness) may leave a soul confused, unaware that it’s time to move on.​
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Unfinished Business – A strong desire to deliver a message or resolve something before transitioning.
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Helping Souls Heal and Move On
​​When a soul doesn’t move on, it often needs assistance. Many mediums, psychics, shamans, Reiki practitioners, and energy workers can help. The challenge lies in knowing what kind of help is needed.
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Some souls are simply asking for guidance. Others are stuck in a loop of trauma, unable to communicate or even recognize that they’ve passed. Some may even resist the presence of humans altogether.
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My specialty is working with traumatized or distressed souls—especially those who are reliving the moment of death or whose energy has fragmented. I help them release those patterns, retrieve lost soul fragments, and transition peacefully. I also clear the spaces—homes, rooms, or buildings—where these souls have lingered, restoring calm and balance.
Many hauntings, in my experience, are not malicious. They’re just souls asking for help. If there are other energies present—such as negative entities or energetic parasites—I can address and remove those as well.
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Supporting the Living
​​Once the immediate issue has been resolved and the soul has been moved on, many people feel a sense of peace and closure. For some, that’s all the work that’s needed. However, if you’re naturally sensitive to psychic energy or have intuitive gifts, further guidance may be helpful.
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I can help you understand your abilities, protect your energetic space, and learn how to navigate your spiritual sensitivity—so you and your loved ones can move forward without fear of psychic interference or attack.
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Future Insights
​​While I do have the ability to perceive future possibilities, I rarely offer predictions. The future is always shifting, shaped by countless choices and energies in motion. Because of this, I believe offering specific forecasts can often do more harm than good. My focus is on helping you make empowered decisions in the present.
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Talking to Loved Ones Who Have Passed
​​I often get asked “Can I talk to my loved one?”
As a medium, I can channel the deceased. Channeling is the process of connecting with a spirit—such as a loved one who has passed—and allowing their thoughts, feelings, or messages to come through.
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Channeling is a deeply respectful and intuitive practice, focused on healing, guidance, and connection.
During the channeling, I act as a conduit or bridge between the spirit world and the physical world. I receive information in various ways—it may come through as words, images, emotions, sensations, or even a sense of "knowing." I then relay this information to you as clearly and accurately as possible.
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You can think of it as a three-way conversation—between you, the spirit, and myself as the intermediary.
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It's important to understand that the priorities of those who have passed may not align with our expectations. What feels most pressing to the living may not be what the soul is focused on in that moment.
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For example, I was once asked if a recently deceased father had a message for his daughters. At that time, he didn’t—his attention was elsewhere. His wife was shocked, unable to understand how his children weren't his main concern.
The reality is, when a soul hasn’t fully transitioned, they may be caught in unresolved trauma, confusion, or emotional review. Their focus may be on healing, processing their life, or even reliving past experiences.
In cases like this, I often assist in helping the soul move on. Once that occurs, I recommend waiting at least 60 days before attempting to reconnect. Some souls need time - sometimes even years - to heal, gain perspective, and be ready for meaningful communication with the living.
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Every soul is on their own unique journey, and their healing process unfolds in its own time. Patience and compassion are key when it comes to spirit communication.​​​